What To Do When Others Tell You How to Raise Your Baby


When you become a parent, it often feels like everyone around you has an opinion about all things baby-related – and they're not afraid to share it with you. At times, their comments can make you feel overwhelmed and confused. You may question whether you're making the best choices for your child.

Above all, trust that you know your child best.

“No matter how good others’ intentions may be, their opinions shouldn't make you second-guess your decisions,” says pediatrician Jason Tatka, DO. “Follow your gut – it'll often lead you in the right direction.”

With the right support, it becomes easier to drown out all the unsolicited advice other people like to share with you. Here's some helpful information on parenting hot topics to keep in mind.

Rock to Sleep or Cry It Out?

Jason Tatka, DO

It’s OK to rock your baby to sleep if that's what you choose.

You can also try sleep training, in which you allow your child to cry for increasing amounts of time to help him or her learn to fall asleep.

This method is safe and effective, and doesn't increase a child's stress levels or impact their bond with you, according to a study in the journal Pediatrics.

“If you decide to sleep-train, talk with your child's pediatrician to determine at which age to start,” Dr. Tatka says.

Breast or Bottle?

You already know that “breast is best.” But if you're unable to breastfeed or choose not to, that's OK, too. Infant formula that's iron-fortified provides all the nutrients your baby needs.

To Vaccinate or Not?

Vaccinate. Immunizations are safe and protect your baby against diseases that can be deadly.

There's a lot of incorrect information out there about vaccines. For example, people may try to tell you that vaccines cause autism. This is false.

“Research shows there's no link between vaccines and autism,” Dr. Tatka says“In fact, the science that originally made that connection, which remained public for decades, was disproven.”

Store-Bought or Homemade Baby Food?

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends introducing solid foods to babies around age 6 months. As long as you're feeding your baby age-appropriate foods, such as pureed vegetables and infant cereal to start, it doesn't matter whether you make it or buy it.

“Whenever you have questions, consult your child's pediatrician," Dr. Tatka says. "Beyond your child's health and development, your pediatrician can guide you on a wide range of topics, including sleep, feeding, behavior and more.”

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