How to help your children

Tips to help make the surgical process easier for both you and your child


  • Ask questions of the professionals who will be involved. As a parent, you should know ahead of time what to expect and then be able to translate that information to your child in a way he or she will best understand it.


  • Allow your child to ask questions and express anxiety. Our experts can help you navigate difficult feelings and help you remain supportive, loving, and reassuring.


  • Be brief but honest. For very young children, a simple “you’re going to go to sleep so the doctors can make you feel better” may suffice. Older children may need a little more detail.


  • Keep in mind that your child will pick up on your emotions. Your strength, confidence, and peaceful attitude will mean the world to your child’s peace of mind.


  • Take advantage of all the services in Rainbow’s Child Life program to acclimate you and your child to the surroundings you’ll encounter in the hospital on the day of surgery.


  • If you are comfortable, take advantage of Rainbow’s policy to allow parents to remain with their children before and after surgery. Your presence is a source of strength and stability before she goes to sleep and when she wakes.


  • Depending on how long your child will be in the hospital, consider staying the whole time. Call (216) 844-1066 to arrange accommodations.