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My Teen Is Breaking Rules — What Can I Do?
We recently moved, and my 16-year-old daughter started at a new school. Lately, she's been ignoring her curfew, and last weekend I smelled alcohol on her breath. What should I do?
– Joe
The best thing you can do is to talk to your daughter openly about your concerns. Be blunt, honest, and understanding — and reassure her that you want to know about her life because you care. Many teens act like they don't need attention from their parents and family, but actually they do.
Also keep an eye out for any changes in your daughter's behavior, attitude, or interests — alcohol and drug use is often linked to depression or to difficult life changes like moving or going through a rough breakup. If you're still concerned about your daughter’s behavior, talk to a counselor for advice.
For more information, check out these articles:
A Parent's Guide to Surviving the Teen Years
Larissa Hirsch, MD
Date reviewed: January 2007
Originally reviewed by: Email us.
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